Friday, 31 August 2007

Brahma Kamal

For HIS feet : A short-lived Wonder


I have been waiting for this day for five years..I bought the plant more than five years ago as a small leaf sticking out of soil from a street vendor...at that time I did not know what I was buying... except that I was buying a flowering plant. A visitor to our home told us that it was Brahma Kamal and it would flower only during the Ganesh Chaturthi. Last year I saw one flower ...but by the time I noticed it, it closed its petals...It flowered during the night and we missed an opportunity. This year I





was looking for the flowers... I saw three buds at the edges of the leaves...I saw the buds growing fast....I was anxious that I should be at home to see the flower.......all the three were growing to full size without any blemish....I came back home from tour in time to witness the Brhama Kamal with open bright white petals and stamens exposed... whiter than the white Lotus...an exhilarating experience...and the mild scent addeded to the new experience. Where-else can be the final abode of such a wonderful creation than HIS feet ?


Of all the plants that I have in my balcony, Brahma Kamal is the one that needed the least attention....but in terms of ROI it is the best so far....I look forward to August 2008 to enjoy more and more Brahma Kamals.

(PS: There are fantastic photographs of Bramha Kamal in the internet...the pictures above are probably the worst)

Added on 14 November 2007: After I wrote this blog, the plant bore three and two flowers on two occasions over a period of about a month....i.e. my understanding that the plant bears flowers only once a year is not true...probably it bears flowers during August - November.













Monday, 20 August 2007

My Teachers - Part II

Part II - Great Time at Srirangam - more than a tribute to my teachers

Originally I posted a LONG essay...on seeing the reaction of Maya and Sheila to the post, I decided to ruthlessly edit the post and the result is the following.

I completed three years at the Pettavaithalai Higher Elementary School and it was time to go for HIGHER education - i.e. sixth standard, elsewhere....by this time Cheena also finished his III Form (eighth standard) at Kulithalai. Appa found it convenient to transfer us to the High School at Srirangam; Srirangam could be reached in about one hour by car from Pettavaithalai so that Appa and Amma could visit us during weekends.

I don't remember the first few days at the Srirangam School...I know that Appa and Amma left us in the hostel with a promise to meet us the next weekend...Cheena and I were given the same room...Cheena was my protector and guardian.

I remember with reverence many teachers of the High School for Boys, Srirangam. It was Shri Rajagopalan who taught me English (Wren and Martin !!!!)...Shri Ramanujam and Shri S.K. Ranganathan, to appreciate tamil literature, especially literature pertaining to Vaishnava saints. I still enjoy the memories of eating Akkaravadasal, Thirukanamudhu, Venpongal Bagalabath etc., which Sri Ranganathan used to bring from Ranganatha temple, especially for us on the days he took turn as Bhattar...Shri Denu taught us Science and Mathematics. There are countless teachers whose faces I could recollect, not their names...my apologies...but I believe that they had given me a strong foundation on values and knowledge...to sail me through in my life...a great contribution for which I salute them all. It is rare to see such dedicated teachers ..each one a genius...now.

It is at the Srirangam school that I learnt to live with people of different backgrounds and faiths; it is there that I learnt to play badminton, football, basketball and was introduced to atheletics; it is there I was made to live on my own steam, without getting bullied by others; it is there where I learnt to take material loss (murukku, thattai, money etc., kept in locked boxes used to be stolen by our beloved friends in the hostel; they knew when to strike..immediately after the visit of Appa and Amma during the weekend) in my stride; it is where I learnt the rudiments of student politics; it is there I learnt many more things than just Science, Maths, English, Tamil, Social Studies......in short the Srirangam School prepared me to face the world in the future. I had seen "the good, bad and ugly" side of kids as well as elders...and learnt that the life is not a bed of roses....

Thursday, 16 August 2007

Looking back - my teachers - Part I

Part I: Pettavaithalai Days..

Today (16 August 2007) Maya started her blogging....she saluted three of her teachers including me. I thought I should salute my teachers who shaped me and helped me to face life.

My first memories of a teacher go to Shri Swaminatha Pillai. It was the year 1959; I was in the third standard in the great Pattavaithalai Higher Elementary School, in Pettavaithalai, a small village in Tiruchi district. Cheena (my brother) was in Standard VI and was travelling to Kulithalai for his HIGHER (!!!) education. Appa wanted someone to tutor both of us and there entered Shri Swaminatha Pillai. A dark, middle sized, old (above 60, claiming to be less than 60) gentleman with Veshti (thattu veshti) and thundu to cover his chest, he always sported Vibhudi on his forehead and carried an umbrella. He used to be punctual at about 06.30 hrs every day (except Sunday); our lessons always started with "VAKKUNDAM" - a prayer to Lord Ganesha, followed by a few prayers to Goddess Saraswathi and Lord Muruga. Cheena had a nice time ...because Shri Pillai told Appa that he was good for tutoring students up to class 5; so his tuitions were confined to his sitting and studying (on his own !!) and in effect I was the sole student of Shri Pillai for three years. He used to make me study and go for a quick nap....catching up with what he lost during the previous night. Once he recommended to Appa to change my section because the teacher was a Parayan (an untouchable); the section he recommended was taught by a Pallan (another untouchable)...for him Pallan was better than a Parayan. For me it did not make any sense...both were good teachers...the society had labelled them...that did not take their competence into account. I was lucky; from my childhood I did not care about anyone's religion, caste or creed....probably I have my Appa's qualities imbibed.
I am a great admirer of my Appa - I will write about him in a separate blog.

I cannot forget the Head Master of Pettavaithalai school. He used to call me to his office often and ask me to recommend to Appa someone or the other for appointment in the Sugar factory..When the Head Master called me first, I was hardly 7 years old and was terribly afraid of this Head Master. I was equally afraid of Appa. A catch 22 situation...how do I convey the message of the Head Master to Appa ? Appa used to come home very late in the evening and leave for the factory very early....(and my waking time at home was mutually exclusive to that of Appa). For a few days I dodged the Head Master, bluffing to him that Appa would tell me when someone could meet him...but the smart Head Master caught me one day and gave me an ultimatum..."tomorrow.....the boy will come to your Banglow". I was nervous...I had not spoken to Appa anytime on this...I did not want this guy to turn up at my place ..anytime....My wonderful, creative brain worked... I wrote a letter, "on behalf of Amma" (Amma did not know anything about this) to the Head Master asking "the boy" to meet the Labour Officer (in those days, Personnel Managers were called Labour officers), Hussain. I handed over the "letter" to the Head Master telling him that I wrote the letter as my mother dictated it as she did not know how to write. A couple of days passed...on the third day as Appa entered the house, as usual I was sleeping(!!), he was asking Amma about me. The next day morning, Amma was asking me, with a mischievous smile, about the mysterious letter that she dictated to me.....I was shivering..nervous...almost dead by the very thought of facing Appa in the evening. So before Appa came back home, I was "as usual" in the bed, covering head to foot with the blanket...As Appa entered the house, he was telling Amma, "the boy got the job"...I was relieved...at last "I am out of the Catch 22 situation". Next morning, after getting up (a little early) I went and sat on Appa's lap, knowing fully well that he would not thrash me, as if nothing had happened. Appa told me softly, "don't write anymore letters; otherwise there will be 100s outside our Banglow"....With a lot of "Asadu" on my face, I got down from Appa's lap and ran away from him ...before he could say anything more. At the end of this episode I was proud that I could get a JOB for an un-employed youth. Later in life, I learnt "If you try you may; if you don't you won't"). For quite a few years, I was teased by Hussain with this story....for me it was OK as far as I did not get a thrashing.

There was this teacher who was a Periyar follower...always making fun of Brahmins, teaching us Science and Maths. He formed many small teams of students, called ministries, headed by leaders called Ministers. We used to call this teacher Anna..I forgot his name. I was made the "Co-operative Minister". My task was to collect quarter of an Ana (presently equal to about 2 paise) from all the students of the class and invest the amount collected in buying notebooks, pencils, slates, balabams (I don't know the English equivalent of this), Kadalai mittai (Chikki), orange mittai etc. I, as the Minister, used to go to places that Anna asked me to go for buying these items at whole-sale prices. These items were "sold" to students at concessional prices (less than the prices at the Petty shop outside the school), while making some "profit". If I remember right, we made a profit of about a rupee or two by the end of the year; we bought sweets and distributed to all the students of the class with the profit...Now I don't remember as to what happened to the "Principal"...of course all the money was given to Anna (was he the Prime Minister ??).

How can I forget the Craft teacher ? He was a gem of a person and he had a soft corner for me. He taught us as to how to make small toys with clay; the source of clay was the small canal behind our school. Each one of us used to collect the clay from the canal (looking back will I do now...never, after seeing someone easing and cleaning himself a few feet away...those were the days when we were not corrupted by education...our relationships, with people and nature, were purely based on raw love and affection for one and all around), make small pots, rods, balls etc., dry and play (especially with small balls of clay for use in catapult, which we used to "bring down" tamarind fruits). He taught us as to how to get the fibre from "Kathazhai" (a cactus with meaty leaves), how to make ropes out of this fibre and how to make "mats" using this fibre thread and split Nanal (a tall grass). He taught us as to how to use Cigarette boxes to make toys, carry bags etc. He taught us fundamentals of drawing. He taught us how to make metal discs out of "Kali crush" lids (it was fun leaving these lids on the Railway line and wait till the train passed by to collect the discs); he also taught us to get some "grease" from the Railway engine driver for stopping the leaks from our ink pens. One of his contributions to my acquiring leadership (!!!) qualities was his teaching us the way of making "pee pee" (whistle) from coconut leaves. Aha!!! I became such an expert in making pee pees (even up to one foot) that there was always a crowd of young kids around me. This earned me the title "Pied Piper of Pettavaithalai" in some circles of my relatives - they were amused by the kid crowd around me admiring my skill for making the pee pee. My Craft Teacher was good to me and I was an admirer of him...till one day. I cannot forget that day...this teacher who was taking rest at the back of my class, suddently started shouting and running...there was froth in his mouth..people tried to hold him..he overpowered all of them and was running all over shouting something which I could not understand..this went on for about half an hour ...some one suggested to give him a key to hold...nothing worked. On his own he fell down...for me a young kid, it was a horror...I thought he was dead. He resumed duty after a couple of days...but I did not have guts to go near him or to see him eye-to-eye...I used to run away from him even at the slightest hint of his coming somewhere near. For a kid it was a confusing experience...someone said that he was possessed by a Pei (bad spirit). Who would go near a Pei???? The very thought of him would make me shiver..Later in life, when I came to know more about this condition, I was ashamed; probably I had hurt a good soul. I am sure he would forgive me...for he was always good.

My teachers at Pettavaithalai taught me to be a theist, to be God fearing, to be sensitive to social imbalances, to handle money (??), to work in teams, to handle pressure, to dirty one's hands to learn, to enjoy nature and to accept life as it flowers...as a kid, with the then curiosity and creative mind, I imbibed some of the good qualities of these teachers...may be these qualities are deep rooted even now. I take this opportunity to thank all the teachers at Pettavaithalai for sowing the seeds of my future personality. In these days of artificial relationships, those were the gems who gave their lives for their students, in spite of their own poverty and problems. My Salute to all of them.

Tuesday, 14 August 2007

15 August

Greetings to you on this 60th Independence Day, 15 August 2007

15 August has been an important date in my life, not just because India obtained freedom on this date:

My loving first daughter Indhu was born on 15 August

My loving second daughter Maya is getting married to Ashwin, born on 15 August

More than that my wife was reborn on this date - by GOD's grace. She is alive today because of my daughter's birth....which triggered off many incidents leading to her being alive today.

Is there a link between these dates and our lives??? I am not sure...there may be. There are 365 days in a Year...why do a few dates become important in our lives ? For me 01 May, 30 October, 02 November, 01 December, 27 September, 1 February, 3 March are important dates...why are they clustered around the month end or the month beginning ? I don't know...do you know?

Starting Trouble

As usual I found it difficult to start a blog..tried about a week ago and did not succeed. Today I have resolved to write something so that the initial resistance to change is overcome. What else to write about than the grace of God...the ever loving and guiding "Tiruchendur Murugan". I am sure He will guide me althrough to make this blog useful and interesting. Whenever I go to Tirchendur Temple I feel a sense of happiness and bliss ...something difficult to express. Standing in front of the deity in the Murugan Sannadhi, and seeking HIS blessings to be always near/with HIM has given me immense pleasure than anything else in the world. Always HE had guided me in the right direction....whenver I was down HE pepped me up. Now that I am taking an important step, I seek HIS blessings to make it a success.
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